To make your fantasy real

Riya Joseph Kaithavanathara
3 min readApr 16, 2020

Well, everyone in this world will have some desires or fantasies in which you want to be ,where you must have pictured yourself to be something which you always wanted to be or which you always wanted to try out. Someone must have desired or fantasized to be in mars living alone or fighting in the world war series or having married their favorite actors or models , or being the superman or batman or spider man or must have fantasized of becoming a very successful actor, getting an Oscar, or getting your crush as your girlfriend or even have dirtier ones like having sex with the world famous porn star or whatever it maybe. We cannot fulfill all our fantasies that is true. But we can always try our level best to make our fantasies realistic so that we can really try it out. Every fantasy cannot be real but some fantasies can be real if you really want it to be. As we all know where there is a will , there is a way. We may have fantasies like kissing someone when we are going in a hot air balloon or going for a forest adventure like some place where you are going alone or with a friend without any map or direction or any idea about it and trying to get out of the maze etc sounds great right? But it has its own safety issues which is the reason why some people really keep their fantasies just as fantasies and not real. If you really wish any reasonable fantasies can be real but you need to just work for it to happen.

I am a person who always had dreams to travel in a ship in an unknown land (not my native) and surrounded with many people from different parts of the world and when I look down upon the water I find crystal clear pure water , where the colour of the sky contrasts with the colour of the sea. And it really happened to me once, when I was studying in 8th grade when we went on our vacation to Oman. It was such a wonderful experience, We saw dolphins playing in the crystal clear blue waters , which was just like a dream come true. There are many fantasies for me and each time I make it a point that I really make it as realistic as possible so that I can really have it for real. And best way to make a fantasy real is to make it as realistic as possible, involve the nature and its beauty into it. First fantasize something reasonable and confined to your planet. Once you are able to fulfill your fantasizes inside this planet , set for the world outside our world. I am sure every great people have started from small to reach the stars, to reach up you have start from down cause if you are not down then you cannot go up. You find something “up” when it is out of your reach and to reach to it you need a journey. So always be ready for that journey, anyway life is a journey where you are discovering many things on your own. Fantasies can be real, only if you make it reasonably reachable to you. Make yourself flexible, reach out for it and you will get it.

You should actually keep a list of your fantasies, like a bucket list or something of that sort. And you have to call it as your deepest desires which you want to make real. Always think about it and work brave to reach to it, it is same as setting up a goal and working for it but here you just have to work brave. The best way to own your fantasy is to be really creative in life. Visualize it more often because each time you visualize it , it is going to look much clearer and simpler to you. And once it looks simpler it is easier to reach it. Most people forget fantasies once they want a normal life, to meet the two ends they will be on the run but life is a one time bliss, just one shot so try to hit it right as much as possible.

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