Things to know when you are getting into a Relationship

Riya Joseph Kaithavanathara
2 min readApr 18, 2020

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  1. No two people are the same. Both people in a relationship are born to different parents, brought up in different situations, studied under different people, with different types of friends. So acknowledge the fact that no two people will be same if you misinterpret same wavelength for being your twin in character then remember that even twins don’t have same character.
  2. Understanding each other will help you to know if he/she is suitable for you. Understanding is not about hearing about the other person from himself/herself alone it is more of observing how he is when he is dealing different kinds of day to day situations.
  3. Know each others work or career and respect it.
  4. Do not always or completely get emotionally dependent on them because that may hurt you. Always everyone will not cover you under their wings. You should use your wings to fly.
  5. Always give them the space you want them to give you.
  6. Try to understand the kind of friends they have and the impact it is making on their life.
  7. Try to understand their daily habits and accept it.
  8. Don’t compare yourself with them.
  9. Never allow ego to crawl into your relationship.
  10. Gradually learn each others likes and dislikes.
  11. Always respect the differences you both have and never force the other person to be as you wish. Allow them to live their life.
  12. Never hide what you feel, speak openly but calmly.
  13. Always have a mentality where even after fights you are open to talk first.
  14. Don’t push the other person or force them in any way.
  15. Respect and understand each others family members and try to keep a good rapport with them.
  16. Talk ,increase your conversations. Conversing with them is a great way to have a healthy relationship.
  17. Try to find common things between you two and do it when you are together to stick together for more time.
  18. Try to be their friend, let them feel comfortable enough to share things with you.

19. Gratitude is the best attitude, be satisfied in whatever they give you instead of complaining.

20. Believe that you two came together for a purpose and always talk it out if you feel stressed out in the relationship rather than jumping to conclude your relationship. Instead of saying it is not working out make it work.

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