Staying positive everytime

Riya Joseph Kaithavanathara
2 min readJul 24, 2020

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Staying positive is a choice you make, either it is programmed directly in your system that you have a don’t care attitude of what world thinks of you or talks about you or you coded the positive attitude in you after you learned how to code it into you from good coders. There is no delete button in your life, but

you can just press “Enter” and start a newline! You do not have a control button to what happens to your life, but you have a “control” button on how to react to such situations! You don’t have a backspace to clean what you wrote

but you have a “shift” button , to shift from a wrong place or situation to a right place! You have an option to “comment” your codes if you are not sure that it will give a desired output, just keep it for later.

Life is not easy and that makes it special & life is not impossible and that is why it is worth trying than quitting. Being a “today” person is good, and people say it is best but don’t forget your yesterday, keep the lessons which will help for your today and tomorrow. If you are really sad and want to cry, just cry it out; let it flow out like a tsunami but once the tsunami is gone then you should rebuild yourself and don’t sit and mourn about it!Every disaster will make you, a stronger person.

If you really feel sad or good for nothing or if someone calls you fat or black or brown or white or thin or short or too tall or anything that feels hurtful to you then don’t forget you are chosen to be so because you can be it and carry out the role in the best way that is why. Just take a box, write many small small notes and keep it in it. When you feel too low , pick one chit up and read. That will plant a positivity in you. If you feel you are good for nothing or if you ever doubt whether you are good for anything , just know that “Yes you are “ and the way to find it out is simple, Just take a paper and make two columns. In the first column write all that is good about you, your positives, your advantages and then in the next column write your demerits or your negatives. Then fold the paper in such a way that you can only read your positives and then think how special you are. And when you are too high and you forget your ground turn the folded paper to the other side and you can see your demerits and that will keep you grounded. That will help you know in which all areas you need improvement! The motto of life should always be

“Stay positive no matter what, cause life is too small for regrets but very valuable!”

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