Life with “Him”

Riya Joseph Kaithavanathara
2 min readApr 1, 2020

Honoring this beautiful relation me and my boy friend build together, I have discovered something very beautiful with him which previously I thought was ugly to disclose in front of people. When you start being with someone else, we always show them our best sides which is just the initial phase of the relation. But when you get to know the person one by one, day by day. You find the same embarrassing things you do looks funny and beautiful with him.

I will share with you a few embarrassing things we possibly doesn't want to show others which we do:-

  1. The first and most important thing is FART…Yes you read it right! we can fart but we get mortified when we fart in front of others.
  2. The protruding tummy. Yes, its too embarrassing to show out our BULGING TUMMY to the world.
  3. You don’t want them to see your morning face, with uncombed hairs here and there and over the face.
  4. you don’t want to meet them without looking good. You always want to feel presentable in front of others.
  5. You don’t want to show them you don’t know stuff. You literally want to be a unicorn in front of them.

There are many things like this , which we don’t want others to know that we do even though we know others as well as us do it.

There is a point in our life when we find this embarrassment funny and cute and laugh from our heart. And we feel exactly the same kind of feeling we feel with our own family members, and that is when we find this particular person.

There will always be a time when we find getting embarrassed in front of this someone special is not an embarrassment actually. He will change the whole equation of our life for the best and we cannot find this particular someone in anyone else.

You can call him your soulmate, muse, whatever it is but the reality is he is the someone who have understood who you really are your good and bad and then decided to stand by you.

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