Be an Umbrella for your partner

You need to let your partner

know that they are always

loved and cared for, they

should turn to you for

comfort. You are their

strength!When you

are in a world of lots of goal

oriented people (which is a

good thing), you also need to

know that there is high competition, with achievers

and overachivers sometimes

we can feel like we are

underachievers. We need to

have someone to hold us when

we are uncertain and shaky,

and who better to understand

you than your partner? We

have to be an umbrella for our

partners, and its a mutual

thing, give them shade when

they need it! A good relationship should be mutually uplifting, then only we can call it a growith oriented relationship. A couple focused on growing together, have thought of their long run and are prepared for being with each other everyday which means that they have passed attraction phase to a emotional bonding phase. When we are nurturers in a relationship, our bondd grow deep rooted. Loyalty is a byproduct of all the understanding, trust, love and emotional bonding. Not only children need nurturing from parents but also partners from each other. There is no single formula of doing things right for a successful relationship but our instincts they dont lie to us. Nurturing and understanding partners are a blessing.